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version (a poem by my daughter, Rebecca Gonshak)

13 Wednesday Jul 2016

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autism, compassion, grace, grief, Hannah, helplessness, loss, love, memory, poem, rebecca gonshak, transience, words, zen

Two kids in the bath again,
me just a smaller version of you.
If you cried, I’d sing
like a miniature mother, Moonshadow
and Bye, Bye, Blackbird. No, I didn’t sing
Bye, Bye, Blackbird then. Oh well, all memory is a lie.
You used to run from wall to wall of the house,
but did I really run after you?
I’m older than you now
but I still feel like a version of you.
That’s an invention too, I can’t say what you meant
in your silence. But if I could go back to that bath
and our feet could touch, and you splashed
– I know you would splash –
I would sing and sing until I lost all words.

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Now (a poem)

01 Sunday May 2016

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acceptance, compassion, eternity, helplessness, loss, love, marriage, metaphor, now, poem, surrender, thinking out loud, transience, zen

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Now

I pause to think how lonesome-long I’ve felt
that snowflakes never die but merely melt.
And so with us: this small, liquescent love.
We started–aimless, frozen flecks of fluff…

You know the rest, if either does. I’ve guessed
at reasons for our muteness: coalesced–
a lukewarm puddle, now—we know we know
already what the other knows (and more).

We pre-discern the gist of sighs. Each stone
that shocks the other, ripples as our own.
You wake so early, now. I sleep so late,
abiding time till we evaporate.

don’t know (a tweet)

27 Wednesday May 2015

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absurdity, compassion, george segal

Why, always, this contest of who hurts the most?

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(photo: George Segal’s sculpture, “The Curtain”)

the same (a tweet)

14 Sunday Dec 2014

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balance, compassion, illusion, love, paradox, zen

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Self-reminder: we are all the same in everything but form.

tweet (a quote from Lao Tzu)

10 Wednesday Dec 2014

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agoraphobia, balance, both, comfort, compassion, lao tzu, love, paradox, quotation, surrender, zen

Lao Tzu: “Without opening your door, you can open your heart to the world.” #zen #agoraphobia

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“Genesis According to George Segal” (a poem by Robert Pinsky)

09 Tuesday Dec 2014

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acceptance, balance, compassion, dust, genesis, george segal, grace, illusion, imkertje, loss, love, poetry, robert pinsky, serenity, surrender, time, transience, truth, zen

 

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Above: “Street Crossing” (1992) by the American artist George Segal (1924-2000)

Robert Pinsky’s “Genesis According to George Segal”

The Spirit brooded on the water and made
The earth, and molded us out of earth. And then
The Spirit breathed Itself into our nostrils—

And rested. What was the Spirit waiting for?
An image of Its nature, a looking glass?
Glass also made of dust, of sand and fire.

Ordinary, enigmatic, we people waiting
In the terminal. A survivor at a wire fence,
Also waiting. Behind him, a tangle of bodies

Made out of plaster, which plasterers call mud.
The apprentice hurries with a hod of mud.
Particulate sand for glass. Milled flour for bread.

What are we waiting for? The hour glass
That measures all our time in trickling dust
Is also of dust and will return to dust—

So an old poem says. Men in a bread line
Out in the dusty street are silent, waiting
At the apportioning-place of daily bread.

At an old-fashioned radio’s wooden case
A man sits listening in a wooden chair.
A woman at a butcher block waits to cut.

What are we waiting for, in clouds of dust?
Or waiting for the past, particles of being
Settled and moist with life, then brittle again.

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Extra cool thing: Robert Pinsky reads this poem aloud here:

http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2014/12/15/genesis-according-george-segal?mbid=social_twitter

 

secret (a quote from C. S. Lewis)

06 Saturday Dec 2014

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apophenia, c. s. lewis, compassion, love, mere christianity, quotation, surrender, zen

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Do not waste time bothering whether you “love” your neighbour; act as if you did. As soon as we do this we find one of the great secrets. When you are behaving as if you loved someone, you will presently come to love him.  –C. S. Lewis

social change (quote from Ram Dass)

18 Saturday Oct 2014

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change, compassion, consciousness, evolution, love, quotation, responsibility, social change, zen

 

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“I don’t think the political arena is where social change occurs. It follows. It always comes later. They’re just reactive—they’ve got pollsters in the White House. I mean, there’s the sole man in the Oval Office reading his polls to decide how to think. Which is great from our point of view. We do have an actor–we have just what we wanted. All we have to do is accept responsibility for the programming.”   –Ram Dass

( from a 1980s debate between RD and Timothy Leary:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GMn31VvR6xI )

faith (a quote from Anne Lamott)

14 Tuesday Oct 2014

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“There’s a lovely Hasidic story of a rabbi who always told his people that if they studied the Torah, it would put Scripture on their hearts. One of them asked, “Why on our hearts, and not in them?” The rabbi answered, “Only God can put Scripture inside. But reading sacred text can put it on your heart, and then when your hearts break, the holy words will fall inside.”   –Anne Lamott (from her book Plan B: Further Thoughts on Faith)

 

just (a quote from Ram Dass)

08 Wednesday Oct 2014

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“We’re all just walking each other home.” ―Ram Dass

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never worry (quote from Mother Teresa)

30 Tuesday Sep 2014

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Never worry about numbers. Help one person at a time, and always start with the person nearest you. –MotherTeresa

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both (quotation by Nassim Nicholas Taleb)

14 Thursday Aug 2014

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acceptance, autism, black swan, both, compassion, death, empathy, grace, Hannah, happiness, illusion, imbalance, letting go, loss, motherhood, Nassim Nicholas Taleb, play, quotation, randomness, surrender, transience, tweet, union, yin yang, zen

“Love without sacrifice is like theft.” —Nassim Nicholas Taleb100_1497

“Grace” (a song by U2)

09 Saturday Aug 2014

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bono, compassion, grace, healing, imkertje, karma, love, song, u2, zen

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F-eCttFx2dg

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clear (a quote from Thich Nhat Hanh)

02 Saturday Aug 2014

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buddha, compassion, dharma, love, quotation, thich nhat hanh

The Buddha’s teachings on love are clear. It is possible to live twenty four hours a day in a state of love. Every movement, every glance, every thought, and every word can be infused with love.    –Thich Nhat Hanh

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#peace (a tweet)

01 Friday Aug 2014

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We’ll know peace only once we finally see that there’s no They, there’s only We. Nor any There, but only Here. Nor any time but Now.

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blind (an extended tweet)

17 Saturday May 2014

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apophenia, blindness, both, compassion, grace, illusion, kindness, metaphor, randomness, tweet, vision, zen

Clearly we’re all blind. We each “know” just one small part of the elephant. Thus, how absurd to be arguing with such fury when we really ought to be comparing notes.

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time (a tweet)

04 Sunday May 2014

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I think it’s time we finally started believing in what we already know.

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caught (Ram Dass)

04 Sunday May 2014

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“If everybody gets caught in your game, you lose. Do you hear that one? If you win, you lose.” –Ram Dass

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friends (a quotation from Rebecca West)

31 Monday Mar 2014

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compassion, empathy, friendship, quotation, zen

There was a definite process by which one made people into friends, and it involved talking to them and listening to them for hours at a time. –Rebecca West

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parts of speech (tweet)

01 Saturday Mar 2014

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awareness, compassion, love, zen

With awareness comes compassion. Truth and love are inseparable. (Truth is the noun, love is the verb.)

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