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Tag Archives: zen

so far (a tweet)

13 Thursday Mar 2014

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acceptance, birth, death, grace, grief, imkertje, miracle, silence, surrender, transience, tweet, zen

So far: death has been my most successful–and tersest–teacher. (Life’s a good teacher too, but distractingly verbose.) Image

Two (tweets)

12 Wednesday Mar 2014

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buddhism, grief, happiness, imkertje, love, mushin, paradox, surrender, transience, truth, tweet, zen

O, the night I typed to him not knowing he’d left his body! Now I long to ask him what came next…

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…then laugh because of course that’s all he’d been talking about, the whole time.

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yab yum (a tweet)

11 Tuesday Mar 2014

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apophenia, imkertje, love, memory, metaphor, sex, thinking out loud, tweet, yab yum, zen

Polishing a pipe today,

its shaft blown sleek and stony-smooth,

when words you taught me leap to heart,

and heart leaps headlong into you.

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aan mijn lieve imker (a tweet)

09 Sunday Mar 2014

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grace, imkertje, love, miracle, surrender, transience, zen

I wrote my 1st haiku today–I, with no monk to transmit it to. Only an empty address: @zerosumr. Ah, how lucky we no longer need the middleman!Image

my first haiku since 5th grade (poem)

08 Saturday Mar 2014

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balance, comfort, haiku, happiness, metaphor, peace, play, transience, warmth, writing, yin yang, zen

The heat, a soothing
roar, clicks off again, creates
a soothing silence.

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All that mad charisma doesn’t hurt, either… (video link)

08 Saturday Mar 2014

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illusion, love, play, Russell Brand, simplicity, truth, zen

How funny to see how nervous people get when you’re simply being a person, telling the truth.

Russell Brand on MSNBC: http://youtu.be/ADJhErmJuoQ  via @YouTube

balancing act (tweet)

07 Friday Mar 2014

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balance, choice, desire, grace, grief, letting go, love, paradox, yin yang, zen

Tightrope path: to allow yourself to want something to the exact degree you’re willing to let it go.

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typo (diary excerpt)

07 Friday Mar 2014

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death, fear, free-wheeling fifth-letter change, illusion, imbalance, metaphor, randomness, typo, zen

…  I’ve noticed that Tara [my friend; also, my beleaguered housekeeper] maintains a fifteen-minute window on either side of her arrival. Right now the time is 3:40. In five minutes I must begin to be on the lookout for her. And so it seems these days with death too—I feel so often lately the anxiety before the anxiety. How dare I say I live forever, when I’m so terrified of dying? I’m afraud …

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[Apologies to Tara for comparing her to death. (She is, in fact, the opposite.)]

white flag (a tweet)

05 Wednesday Mar 2014

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acceptance, marriage, surrender, tweet, zen

Fact I need to get used to: I have absolutely no idea how to get the horse to drink the water—I only know what doesn’t work. baby-common-goldeneye-ducks-leaving-nest-flying-for-first-time

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exquisite paradox (quotation)

04 Tuesday Mar 2014

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meditation, paradox, ram dass, surrender, zen

exquisite paradox (quotation)

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Both (thinking out loud)

01 Saturday Mar 2014

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balance, paradox, thinking out loud, yin yang, zen

We are both log and fire, both noun and verb. Time devours us, yes, but it’s as true to say that we devour time. And the odd thing is, I can’t think of any way this simultaneity can’t go on forever. Our cyclical natures–the perpetual balancing act of matter and energy, growth and dissolution, birth death birth death birth death birth–will keep us caught in their back-and-forth until the universe ends, or the laws of physics change. How could it possibly be otherwise? Frankly, there’s just nowhere else to be but here, and no other time–no time we can taste–but now.

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parts of speech (tweet)

01 Saturday Mar 2014

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awareness, compassion, love, zen

With awareness comes compassion. Truth and love are inseparable. (Truth is the noun, love is the verb.)

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on fire (twitter tweet)

01 Saturday Mar 2014

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balance, both, physics, thinking out loud, yin yang, zen

It seems to me that we know we’re the candle, but forget that we’re also the flame.

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summary (poem)

27 Thursday Feb 2014

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freedom, helplessness, poem, randomness, surrender, thinking out loud, zen

The trick, as ever, is not minding. The trick: allow yourself no choice. Never/always losing/finding. Gone, the actor. Mute, the voice.

 

the trick (quotation)

27 Thursday Feb 2014

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“If you wish to know the truth, only cease to cherish opinions.” –the Third Zen Patriarch

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ghost (tweet)

27 Thursday Feb 2014

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acceptance, comfort, grief, loss, memory, surrender, zen

As I get older, I find that the past doesn’t haunt me the way it used to. But sometimes, now, I haunt it.

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glimpse (a tweet)

14 Saturday Dec 2013

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I can glimpse the fact that miracle and disaster are the same–but usually only years after the event, and rarely in the right-now.Image

Apophenia (random thought) (an extended tweet)

04 Wednesday Dec 2013

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apophenia, coincidence, randomness, thinking out loud, writing, zen

My favorite thing these days:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apophenia

It’s vital to the human creation of art, yes?

The fact of randomness (and I may as well posit it as a fact, because I don’t know how to know differently) is the miracle from which we all spring, and the foundation upholding everything we feel, think, do, create. We needn’t even learn–we are born to know how–to take advantage of random events (“coincidences,” with all that word’s various connotations), insofar as we’re able (and willing?) to. Just seconds after our birth, among the otherwise “meaningless” distortions of a suddenly visual, almost certainly terrifying world, our eyes are somehow and irresistibly drawn to the life-saving pattern of our mother’s face. We feel better; with muscles we’ve never used before, we strain to reach her. I think it’s like this: She’s our first “Jesus-in-a-piece-of-toast.” She’s our first “Face on Mars.” (In my own private parlance, she’s the “pirate in the bathroom tile”) Two eyes, one nose, one mouth (and, in the pirate’s case [but probably not the mother’s], an eye-patch and a droopy mustache). That simple visual pattern becomes our first lullabye, our first fable, our primal surrender to the comfort of the arbitrary.

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practice (a tweet)

29 Friday Nov 2013

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Daily zen practice: Shake the habit of repeating the same old mistakes. Instead, make only new mistakes.

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forget (Rumi)

25 Monday Nov 2013

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freedom, poems, zen

“Forget safety.
Live where you fear to live.
Destroy your reputation.
Be notorious.”                                                      –Rumi

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kindness (the Dalai Lama)

23 Saturday Nov 2013

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“Be kind whenever possible.
It is always possible.”
–The Dalai Lama

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enter (Campbell)

18 Monday Nov 2013

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“The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.”    ~Joseph Campbell

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silence (Rumi)

16 Saturday Nov 2013

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“Silence is the language of god, all else is poor translation.”  ― Rumi

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is (a tweet)

16 Saturday Nov 2013

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There’s no “There’s.” There’s no “just”. There’s just “is”.   (July, 2013)

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solitudes (Rilke)

16 Saturday Nov 2013

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“Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other.” ~ Rainer Maria Rilke

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quieter (Ram Dass)

16 Saturday Nov 2013

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“The quieter you become, the more you can hear.”  ~Baba Ram Dass

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silly (Horace)

16 Saturday Nov 2013

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“Mix a little foolishness with your prudence: It’s good to be silly at the right moment.”     –Horace

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more and more (Van Gogh)

16 Saturday Nov 2013

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“I try more and more to be myself, caring relatively little whether people approve or disapprove.”                                                                                 –Vincent Van Goghpinky tuscadero

definition (a quotation)

15 Friday Nov 2013

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“Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth.”  ―Alan Wattsescher paradox

surrender (a tweet)

15 Friday Nov 2013

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We surrender, again, and laugh–again!–to learn there’s no conqueror there to bow down to–no, nor anyone left to do the bowing.  (October, 2013)
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not minding (a tweet)

15 Friday Nov 2013

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is this anything ‏@nancycoughlin 9 Aug, 2013

 

Life is so much easier when you don’t mind how hard it is.

we live each other’s lives (a tweet)

12 Tuesday Nov 2013

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We live each other’s lives, from deep within our own, every day; it’s time we noticed this already.

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— is this anything (@nancycoughlin) October 9, 2013

trick is to find (a tweet)

12 Tuesday Nov 2013

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The trick is to find miracles in what may well be–I honestly don’t know how to know– randomness.

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— is this anything (@nancycoughlin) October 9, 2013

lucky (a tweet)

12 Tuesday Nov 2013

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surrender, zen

Just believing you’re lucky makes you lucky. Try it and see. I myself have been lucky all my life. As, in fact, have we all.

— is this anything (@nancycoughlin) November 11, 2013

a counter-argument to blogging

11 Monday Nov 2013

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When you do something, you should burn yourself up completely, like a good bonfire, leaving no trace of yourself. ~ Shunryu Suzuki

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